
What We’re Thinking About
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Every week, we publish articles written by our counselors on various mental health, spiritual formation, or overall wellness topics.
How to Get Out of the Social Media Comparison Trap
People have always compared themselves to others. But with the advent of social media, it’s easier—and possibly more harmful—than ever before.
Forgotten Vices, Forgotten Virtues: Pride vs. Humility
Most Christians recognize pride as the root of all sins—loving oneself above God. Humility offers the opportunity for healing.
The Mental Load of Motherhood
Motherhood can be busy, and much of it is unseen mental work. How can you stay on top of it all?
How Psychological Theories Apply to Therapy
Therapists use theories to examine, understand, and help clients navigate their lives. They draw a map and point out some things to look for along the way.
Counselor Spotlight: James
James Snider, LAC discusses self-reflection through landscaping, movie reviews, and how pie is uninteresting.
Developing Safety and Trust in Relationship
Have you ever typed an entire email or text and second-guessed yourself out of fear that your words might be misinterpreted? For most, this is a daily task.
Are You Your Own Person?
Sometimes we care so much about what others think of us—be they strangers, friends, partners, parents, or coworkers—that we don’t know what we ourselves want, think, or feel. Autonomous people, those who are their “own person,” operate in a different way.
The Fourth Trimester: A Look at Postpartum Mental Health
What is supposed to be a beautiful time—meeting your child and basking in the newborn snuggles and joy of newfound motherhood—can carry its own difficult weight.
Forgotten Vices, Forgotten Virtues: Reclaiming a Christian Tradition
Pride, greed, wrath, envy, lust, gluttony, and sloth. The Seven Deadly Sins no doubt ring a bell. Sean Kelly, LAC describes how they offer something valuable to spiritual formation.
Counselors on Culture: “A Hidden Life” Movie Review
Terrence Malick’s film A Hidden Life asks viewers to engage questions about suffering and faith—particularly when you are suffering alone.
5 Ways Your Anger May Be Trying to Help You
While it can be destructive if it is not managed properly, acknowledging and honoring anger can actually be healthy and helpful.
What Are Love Languages?
Feeling loved is a basic human need. How do you give and receive love to those in your life?
How Building Confidence Helps Cope With Social Anxiety
Social anxiety and low self-confidence often go hand-in-hand. It makes sense, then, that increasing self-confidence can decrease your level of social anxiety. But how can you build self-confidence?
New Year's Evaluation
Instead of a New Year's resolution, how about a New Year's evaluation? Before we can make real change in our lives, we need to evaluate ourselves to gain insight into who we are and the kind of change we need.
3 Simple Ways to Improve Your Sleep
There are three things you need to know to get better sleep.
What John the Baptist Can Teach Us About Doubt
Jesus calls John the Baptist “the greatest among those born of women.” Yet despite his greatness in ministry and faith, John also seems to have doubt.
When God’s Gifts Come in Unexpected Wrapping
When it comes to “getting what I want,” I can’t help but wonder how many times my mindset toward God is similar to the mindset I had of Santa during childhood.
Staff Picks and Must-Reads: 2022
We asked our counselors, “what’s the best book you read this year?” Here’s our list of staff picks and must-reads for 2022.
Counselor Spotlight: Pete
Peter Ruffini, LPC discusses his past, the benefits of Christian therapy, and long-lasting emotional wellness.
3 Things to Help You Enjoy the Christ-Celebrated Season
Christmas brings great joy—and sometimes great stress. Here are three ways to help you enjoy the Christ-celebrated season.